This or That: Speed Round
Fast answers. No overthinking. Real preferences.
Cuper angle: Speed rounds cut through the considered, polished version of someone and get to the gut. What a person prefers without time to think about it is usually what they actually prefer.
Morning person or night owl?
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All 30 Questions
Morning person or night owl?
Text or call?
Stay in or go out?
Dog person or cat person?
Coffee or tea?
Cook at home or eat out?
Beach or mountains?
Planner or spontaneous?
Movie at home or in the cinema?
Summer or winter?
Big group hangout or small dinner with close friends?
Long relationship before commitment or knowing early and going all in?
City or somewhere quieter?
Partner who challenges you or one who accepts you completely as you are?
Deep feelings said out loud or shown through actions?
Career first or relationship first?
Knowing your future or not knowing anything past today?
Forgive quickly or take your time?
Conflict out loud or process privately first?
Lots of shared interests or each having your own world?
Being truly known by one person or being liked by many?
Safety or possibility?
A short life that's full or a long one that's comfortable?
Being loved more or loving more?
Fix what's broken or walk away cleanly?
Stay the same and be happy or change into someone new?
Honesty that hurts or kindness that misleads?
One great love or many deep connections?
Living for now or building for later?
Being remembered or being at peace?
How to use these
Three seconds max per answer - no deliberating.
Both people answer at the same time on the count of three.
You can't say 'it depends' - pick one, then explain if you want.
Go back and ask 'why' on the ones you disagreed on.
Turn questions into connection
Cuper uses MBTI, attachment style, and Enneagram to surface the right questions for your personality pairing, in the app, with your match.
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