Never Have I Ever: Couples Edition
The classic, but make it actually revealing.
Cuper angle: Never Have I Ever works because it's confessional without being interrogative. It gives permission to share things that would feel too deliberate to just say out loud.
Never have I ever cancelled a date because I was too nervous to go through with it.
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Never have I ever cancelled a date because I was too nervous to go through with it.
Never have I ever scrolled someone's entire social media history before meeting them.
Never have I ever rehearsed what I was going to say before a date.
Never have I ever matched with someone and then never said a single word.
Never have I ever picked a restaurant based on how it would look in photos.
Never have I ever turned down a date because of their zodiac sign.
Never have I ever changed outfits more than three times before meeting someone.
Never have I ever sent a screenshot of a conversation to get a second opinion on how to reply.
Never have I ever googled someone before a date to the point where I knew things I probably shouldn't.
Never have I ever liked an ex's photo on purpose.
Never have I ever stayed in something too long because leaving felt harder than staying.
Never have I ever said 'I'm fine' and meant the complete opposite.
Never have I ever ended a relationship over text because I didn't know how else to do it.
Never have I ever told a different version of a breakup story to different people.
Never have I ever checked an ex's profile after a hard day.
Never have I ever pretended to be okay with something I wasn't, and then quietly resented it later.
Never have I ever ghosted someone I actually liked because I got scared.
Never have I ever stayed friends with an ex longer than I probably should have.
Never have I ever asked someone out and immediately wished I could take it back.
Never have I ever caught feelings for someone who was very clearly not available.
Never have I ever held back from someone I liked because I assumed they'd eventually leave anyway.
Never have I ever stayed quiet about something important because I didn't trust how they'd respond.
Never have I ever ended something before it could end me.
Never have I ever known I loved someone more than they loved me and stayed anyway.
Never have I ever apologized for something I wasn't actually sorry about, just to end the conflict.
Never have I ever wanted to be truly seen by someone and made it impossible for them to do that.
Never have I ever confused comfort with love and realized it too late.
Never have I ever wanted to leave a relationship and convinced myself to stay for the wrong reasons.
Never have I ever said 'I love you' without being entirely sure I meant it.
Never have I ever let go of someone knowing I'd probably wonder about it for a long time.
How to use these
If you've done it, say so - that's literally the whole game.
Follow up on the interesting ones - the story behind it is always better.
The questions you both hesitate on are usually the most worthwhile.
Keep score if you want, but the conversation is the real prize.
Turn questions into connection
Cuper uses MBTI, attachment style, and Enneagram to surface the right questions for your personality pairing, in the app, with your match.
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